Ask! The Bridge From Your Dreams To Your Destiny!!!

A tombstone at Westminster Abby has the following written by an Anglican Priest from the 1500s.

It says;

” When I was young and free and my Imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world.

As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world will not change…so I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country, but it too seemed immovable.

As I grow into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it.

And now I realize as I lie on my deathbed, if I had only change myself first, then by example I might have changed my family. From their inspiration and encouragement, I would have been able to better my country.
And who knows, I might have even changed the world”

If you want to change the world, you start by changing yourself.

You change yourself by asking.

If you don’t like something, ask.(ask, seek and knock) how to change it.

Ask God, ask others, ask yourself.

With each question you will receive an illumination, an idea or the help, assistance that allows you to change in small ways.

“Every positive movement, every breakthrough, every extraordinary idea, every fortune made, always begins with Asking.”..

Mark Victor Hansen (in his new book, Ask!). It is only by learning How to Ask and What to Ask that you can create your most extraordinary life, manifest your greatest blessings, and cross the bridge from your dreams to your ultimate destiny.

Make that change!

Micah Ndackson, Lifesuccess Coach

Which is which; Social distancing or Physical distancing?

Which is which; Social distancing or Physical distancing ?

I had a serious and beautiful intellectual engagement with colleague Sociologists, all day. Want to share the fallout:

•Social distancing is NOT the same as Physical distancing and their usage must not be synonymous.

•Physical distancing,is a set of non-pharmaceutical interventions or measures taken to prevent the spread of a contagious disease by maintaining a physical distance between people and reducing the number of times people come into close contact with each other.It typically involves keeping a certain distance from others (Wikipedia)

•Social distance on the other hand refers to the level of acceptance people have of others outside of their own social group or class. This level of acceptance is defined by their general feelings toward others, and the amount of social interaction they have with people whose characteristics are outside of their social norm. Social distance is a measure of perceived difference (or distance) among groups. As a social construct, social distance is a familiar issue. Many common phrases refer to social distance, such as ‘out of your league’ and ‘birds of a feather flock together.

Some social characteristics that lead to social distance include race, ethnicity, age, gender, and economic class.

Some people for example, still exhibit extreme levels of racial social distance by not wanting to live or work with members of other ethnicities.This emerges from feelings and manifests in attitude which is a demonstration of Social distancing.

• Clearly then,the strategy to reduce the spread of the COVID-19 pandemic is
“ PHYSICAL DISTANCING “ and NOT “social distancing”

• A very welcome development is that, the World Health Organization (WHO) has started using the phrase “physical distancing” instead of “social distancing” as a way to prevent the spread of the novel coronavirus from people to people, a move widely welcomed by experts as a step in the “right direction”.

• Let’s observe Physical distancing to stop the spread of the corona virus.

• Stay safe, love life!

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Remembering Ernest Okonkwo!

Remembering Ernest Okonkwo!!

The Legendary Ernest Okonkwo. Golden Voice over Nigeria’s Radio Airwaves.*
Could anyone remember hilarious clichés like these?
_“He beats *Christian Chukwu!*, he beats *Christian Madu!*, he beats *Christian Nwokocha!* . . he beats three *Christians* in a row!, who is this man?”_
_“He must be a Moslem; Oh! it is *Shefiu Mohammed* sending a diagonal pass to *Baba Otu Mohammed.”*_
*On another account he quipped.*
_“The lanky ebony black goal-hungry *Ranger* is ranging alone in the goal area of the *Water Corporation Football Club of Ibadan*. Can the one-man riot squad make it four for *Rangers*? A hat trick, that is one, two, three goals are already in his kitty”._
_“ *Ifeanyi Chukwu* means *’Nothing is insurmountable to God’*. Four goals are also not beyond the ability of *Ifeanyi Chukwu Onyedika*”._
_“It is a goal! Goal number four for the indomitable *Rangers International Football Club of Enugu*, all scored by *Ifeanyi Chukwu Onyedika*”_.
*His apt description*, _“After ninety minutes of play and extra time, the match has ended one goal apiece, but a winner must emerge”._
Another,_
_“Five players have on each side been selected to take the penalty kick. The players are praying to their God to give them this day, but it is not who prays more but who plays better.”_
_“ *Okey Isima*, with a short pass to *Sylvanus Okpala*, they both play in *Portugal*. They can communicate in *Igbo*, they can communicate in *English*, they can communicate in *Portuguese* and they just communicated with *the ball*.”_
_“ *Etim Esin*, he shilly-shallies, he dilly-dallies, and he tries to beat one man, but only succeeds in beating himself.”_
_“ *The Super Eagles* are gathered in the centre of the circle, they seem to be saying, *”Oh! God give us this day!.”*”_
Those are the fond memories of the quintessential *Ernest Okonkwo* whose voice lighted up every football game then.
Names and coinages were his trademark; *Emmanuel* _‘Man Mountain’_ *Okala*, *Aloysius* _‘Blockbuster’_ *Atuegbu*, *Christian* _‘Chairman’_ *Chukwu*, _‘Mathematical’_ *Segun Odegbami*, *Kelechi* _‘Caterpillar’_ *Emetole*, _‘Midfield Maestro’_ *Mudashiru Lawal*, _‘Justice’_ *Adokiye Amasiemeka*, *Uwem* _‘Harmattan’_ *Ekarika*, or *Sylvanus* _’Quicksilver’_ *Okpala*, _‘Commander’_- *Louis Igwilo*, *Sylvester* _‘Bahama’_ *Oparanozie*, *Benedict* _‘Surugede’_ *Ugwu*, *Idowu* _‘Slow Poison’_ *Otubusen*, _‘Shortish’_ *John Benson*, _‘Diminutive’_- *Amaechi Otti*, *Nnamdi*_‘Polic
eman’_ *Anyafo*, *Davidson* _‘Okada Air’_ *Owumi*, _‘Penalty Specialist’_- *Christian Madu*, _‘Masters of Long Throw’_- *Moses Otolorin*, and _‘The Man with Bullet Shot’_- *Emmanuel Osigwe*
_Those were days when people would put their television set on mute and prefer to listen to Okonkwo’s commentary on radio._ He was a creative mind who had a unique style of commentating, giving appropriate qualifying adjectives to each of every persona, be they player, administrator or referee. He was indeed a heavyweight in the broadcast industry when he ran commentaries on the radio for Radio Nigeria in his days.
He was the soul of every game and Nigerian league was alive with his voice running like wild fire describing both the ball and the players on the field of play. Someone once thoughtfully asked whether Ernest Okonkwo died with the league football commentary because ever since his death the country has not producer any other that can surpass his style.
So many argued and still argue that if *Ernest Okonkwo* is to be from a different clime, he would have been immortalised. To immortalise him of course is the sports community’s expectation from the federal government.
Undoubtedly, he popularised the term _“Intercontinental ballistic missile.”_ He was witty, intelligent, and never was there a dull moment when he is on the commentaries during a football match.
How can anyone that knows something about football in Nigeria forget the one and only evergreen *Ernest Okonkwo* with his very vivid and spirited commentaries? He was a genius, a class act and Mr. Total football.
When you remember memorable matches like *Rangers* versus *IICC Shooting Stars*, African Cup Winners Cup Semi final of *1976*. *Rangers versus Mehalla of Egypt* where came the phrase, _“Mehalla saw wahala”_ Green Eagles versus Tunisia in 1978, where *Godwin Odiye* scored an own goal and Nigeria failed in their bid for the ‘78 world cup in Argentina, Green Eagles versus Morocco in 1988 semi final nation’s cup penalty shoot-out, what readily comes to mind is the memory of *Ernest Okonkwo*.
*Okonkwo* looked like a colossus in his chosen career, particularly in radio sports commentary from 1957 when he joined the Nigerian Broadcasting Corporation (NBC) till *August 7, 1990* when he breathed his last, having given illustrious *33* years to broadcasting.
He started his journey in the media at the *Nigerian Broadcasting Corporation (NBC) Enugu* in *1957* as programme assistant,but was later trained at Australian Broadcasting Commission between 1964 and 1965. He later became Head of outside Broadcasts at the *Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria (FRCN)*.
He was from *Nando* in Anambra-East Local Government Area, Anambra State. As a sport commentator, *Okonkwo* made his debut at the _1976 African Nations Cup in Addis-Ababa_ and later went on to cover many other international sport competitions, including the All-Africa Games, Olympic Games and the Commonwealth Games. On the home front, *Okonkwo* was there running commentaries on the local sport competitions, particularly football matches, in addition to analysing matches involving the national football teams.
Remarkably, *Okonkwo* distinguished himself with his witty and flowery language and deep sense of analysis. Like *Moses Kpakor* described, _“The speciality of this man which surprised me was how he knew all the actions that would end in goal! He would readily tell you this action would lead to a goal and it would be so.”_
He brought verve into radio commentary and interestingly many were entertained, enlightened and informed by his art. In essence, during his days many fans and footballers alike would record his commentaries as every outing was a masterpiece. According to *Yisa Sofoluwe*, “He was a master on the job who is greatly missed by all of us. I used to ask that his commentaries be recorded for me and always listened to them after matches.”
*Ernest Okonkwo* who could be rightly described as a man with the special gift of the garb might have gone, but obviously his legacies in Nigerian football remains, especially memories of his exceptional works.

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To all teachers!!!

Dedicated to all the teachers.

From A School Principal’s speech at a graduation……

He said “The Doctor wants his child to become a doctor…
the Engineer wants his child to become an engineer…
The Businessman wants his ward to become CEO…
BUT a teacher also wants his child to become one of them, as well..!!
Nobody wants to become a teacher BY CHOICE”…
Very sad but that’s the truth..!!

The dinner guests were sitting around the table discussing life.

One man, a CEO, decided to explain the problem with education. He
argued, “What’s a kid going to learn from someone who decided his best
option in life was to become only a teacher?”

To stress his point he said to another guest;
“You’re a teacher, Mrs Sharma. Be honest. What do you make?”

Teacher Mrs Sharma, who had a reputation for honesty and frankness
replied, “You want to know what I make?
(She paused for a second, then began…)

“Well, I make kids work harder than they ever thought they could.

I make a C+ feel like the Congressional Medal of Honor winner.

I make kids sit through 40 minutes of class time when their parents
can’t make them sit for 5 min. without an I- Pod, Game Cube or movie
rental.

You want to know what I make?

(She paused again and looked at each and every person at the table)

I make kids wonder.

I make them question.

I make them apologize and mean it.

I make them have respect and take responsibility for their actions.

I teach them how to write and then I make them write.
Keyboarding isn’t everything.

I make them read, read, read.

I make them show all their work in math.

They use their God given brain, not the man-made calculator.

I make my students from other countries learn everything they need to
know about India while preserving their unique cultural identity.

I make my classroom a place where all my students feel safe.

Finally, I make them understand that if they use the gifts they were
given, work hard, and follow their hearts, they can succeed in life.

(Mrs Sharma paused one last time and then continued.)

Then, when people try to judge me by what I make, with me knowing
money isn’t everything, I can hold my head up high and pay no
attention because they are ignorant. You want to know what I make?

I MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN ALL YOUR LIVES, EDUCATING KIDS AND PREPARING
THEM TO BECOME CEO’s, AND DOCTORS AND ENGINEERS…

What do you make Mr. CEO? Only money?

His jaw dropped; he went silent.

THIS IS WORTH SENDING TO EVERY teacher you know .

Actually very worth sending again & again – especially to those from
other professions who think they are above teachers.

– Author Unknown.